FAQS

 

•1.      What ceremonies can a Celebrant perform other than marriages?

 Anniversaries, Blessings, Birthdays, Cleansing, Civil Union (if registered), Coming of Age, Commitment, Croning, Cultural,  Divorce, Engagement, Farewelling (resignation/overseas etc), Funerals (Life Celebrations), House Blessing, Interring of Ashes, Launching (e.g. boat/new product), Marriage (if registered), Master of Ceremonies, Memorials, Naming, Pet Ceremonies, Placenta, Planting, Promotions, Renewal of Vows, Retirement, Reunions, Scattering of Ashes, Same Sex Ceremonies, Tree Planting, Unveiling of Headstone and any other appropriate ceremonies a Celebrant may be asked to perform.

 •2.      What ceremonies must a Celebrant be legally registered for?

 Marriages and Civil Union

To apply for registration refer to your local Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages (BDM) or refer to their website for further information:

www.dia.govt.nz 

 •3.      Can anyone become a Celebrant?

 Yes, however to officiate at weddings or civil unions you must be registered with BDM - see above.

 •4.      Where is training available?

 a) Celebrant School                                                                                                                

Contact: Mary Hancock

Website: http://www.celebrant.school.nz/

 b) Wellington Institute of Technology (WelTec NZ)

Contact: Michael Wolffram

Website: http://www.weltec.ac.nz/SubjectAreas/HealthWellbeing/DiplomainCeremonyandCelebration/tabid/315/Default.aspx

NB: This is not an endorsement of either programme. 

 Please note: Undertaking such training programmes is not a guarantee to becoming a registered Marriage or Civil Union Celebrant. Please refer to your local BDM for further information

 c) CANZ Conferences and Education Forum Meetings

 d) CANZ Branch Meetings  

 •5.      Where can ceremonies be performed?  Are there any time constraints for venue restrictions?

 Ceremonies can be performed anywhere at anytime.  In some public places/parks, the local authority requires advance bookings and/or a fee.

 •6.      Thinking of getting married?  Here are some steps in the process.

 •(a)  Choose the date and wedding venue plus the wedding reception venue, if a different locality

•(b)   Choose the Marriage Celebrant - some Celebrants require a deposit at the first meeting

•(c)    Consider the florist, photographer, transportation, clothing, cake, entertainment

•(d)    Set the date and attend the first interview at which the initial planning process will begin and the Celebrant will provide the necessary information

•(e)    Apply for the marriage licence from the local office of BDM - this can also be downloaded from the website (www.dia.govt.nz).  A maximum of three days is the timeframe in which to do this

•(f)    At the second interview bring all documentation and the fee to the Celebrant. At this meeting the ceremony will be finalised

•(g)   A dress rehearsal if required, may be held a few days prior to the ceremony

•(h)   Once the licence is issued, the ceremony can take place regardless of objections - but only at the place/s named on the licence.  The only exception is if an objector provides a caveat from a District Court judge.

 •7.      Must I choose a local Celebrant?

 No, however we do refer you to our Membership List where you can access Celebrants by name or region via our website www.celebranz.org.nz

 •8.      Define a secular ceremony

 This is a ceremony that is non-religious.

 •9.      Can a Civil Celebrant conduct a religious ceremony?

 Yes

 •10. Do I need permission to be married?  If so, from whom?

 Sixteen years of age is the minimum legal age for marriage. Parental consent or a District Court order is required if either of the couple is under the age of eighteen years. Permission to marry is confirmed via the issue of a marriage licence.

•11. Define the framework for a Marriage or Civil Union ceremony.

Legal Ceremony Requirements

 The legal requirements are:

  • The marriage must be performed in the presence of a Registered Marriage Celebrant or Registrar of Marriages at one of the places specified on the marriage licence.
  • The full legal names of both parties to the marriage must be stated somewhere in the ceremony.
  • The marriage must be performed in the presence of at least two witnesses; and
  • During the ceremony, and before at least two witnesses, each party must say the words "I AB take you CD, to be my legal wife/husband" or words to similar effect.
  • Both parties, witnesses and Marriage Celebrant/Registrar sign the registration forms

Both parties must sign the registration forms using their pre-married signatures according to their names on the Marriage Licence. For example, if the bride is assuming the groom's surname on marriage, the bride must sign the registration forms using her usual signature prior to marriage.

Children may act as witnesses if they understand the importance of the part they take in the recording of the marriage and can demonstrate that understanding in court if later required to do so.

 The Celebrant is responsible for returning the Copy of Particulars document to the BDM office it was sent from and giving the other copy to the couple. (Both are so marked)

 Suggested Framework for a Marriage Ceremony

 Welcome & Introduction perhaps starting with a poem, quote or short reading

  • Meaning of marriage and couple's story
  • Giving Away or Presentation of the Bride (and Groom) - e.g. "Who gives this woman in marriage to this man?" Parents/Family member/Friend
  • Declaration of Intent if chosen
  • Declaration of support by family & friends if chosen
  • Exchange of Vows between Bride & Groom
  • Giving of Rings if applicable or any other token or symbol if applicable
  • Pronouncement
  • Signing of the legal documents - two witnesses
  • Conclusion/Presentation of couple

ALSO

  • Readings
  • Blessings
  • Poems or Prayer
  • Appropriate cultural traditions/rituals such as candle lighting or hand-fasting, can also be included throughout the ceremony as the couple so chooses and these can be undertaken by family members or friends.
  • Relevant notices can also be given regarding photographs, reception etc.